RAPE or say Status of a female in society.

It is estimated that approximately 35% of women worldwide have experienced some form of sexual harassment in their lifetime. In the majority of countries that have data available on rape report that less than 40% of women who experience sexual violence seek help. Less than 10% seek help from law enforcement.DATA by -worldpopulationreview.com


What we think how serious is this issue. It can't be judged by opinion of some people or a single country level. Because when you take the data worldwide you got to know the seriousness of matter.
   Now, an incident occurred and got to media at a large level so it become a matter to discuss. WHY it is not discussed on daily bases. Why don't we want to talk about it in house with our parents,our children and siblings. WHY NOT! 
   A incident occurred with myself where when i Tried to talk about it my parents blame it on the girl even they have two Daughter and told us its better to be with" samaj" that finger will be pointed to a girl only not on boy.
 Is it good to have such samaj or society which can't protect their own daughter,wife,mother and sister.In my point of view this thinking should be changed.
By making rules strict is not the only solution for this disaster.It is in our roots that so called male dominance which start from the birth of child,the language they use and many other.
   If we want to stop it we have to start it form individual person.As we have to inculcate that respect from birth itself. We have to change this male dominant thinking which had large impact on our society.Why always head of family can be male only .If it is Possible to run world with male so Why god created female? WHY
  Why we have multiple things in our language which shows the low status of female .why does dog's are alpha and female dog's are bitch(a abusive word).
Why when husband try to help his wife is a joro ka gulam for society. it's mutual understanding of those partner how they want there household to be . Whereas when male beat wife then he will be a macho, ALPHA.I know not everyone is in this category but why it is present in a small amount even.
 These all because of that old myths because they appreciate the power of male and want to keep female as "PAON KI JUTI". they interpreted the mythological theories as a base of argument for there rules but they can't get its real meaning.
Devi can be polite as mother But why they forget that it can be as powerful as Chandi And I hope a day will come soon where they got to know the power of Chandi who can't be bound by them in any way or emotion.

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